April 25, 2015
From the very second you were created, in that moment when they came together in the darkness in the place where they thought no one would see them, when they were madly in love with one another – from that very first moment of your life when you were just the size of a poppy seed, He knew you.
He knew you when they found out that you were growing inside that most secret place, when you were just the size of an apple seed. He knew how they would react when they found out. It may have been an unplanned surprising shock to them, but it was never a surprise to Him. Even then He was the One who was writing your story. His timing, His Hand forming your heart and stomach and intricate digestive system, crafted every detail with perfect precision.
When you were about the size of a green olive, He was sculpting your facial features, shaping those tiny ears and that little nose that are uniquely yours. Your heartbeat was strong enough to be heard on the doctor’s machines.
April 15, 2015
. . . And you live happily ever after. The end.
The last piece of paper has been given the last stamp of approval, and at last the painful wait is over. The child you have been dreaming of and praying for all these months is finally home! Friends are celebrating this glorious and unforgettable event with you. You are surrounded with shouts of “Congratulations!” and well wishes. There are welcome-home parties and showers of gifts and friends bringing meals and your extended family coming to visit. It is a joyous time indeed!
This is the one thing you have longed for more than anything. This is what you have been preparing for and planning for. Your dream has finally come true! Your family finally feels complete.
Where, then, is the happily ever after? How is it possible for you to feel so sad and overwhelmed? Where do these tears keep coming from? These inexplicable emotions add guilt and shame to the confusing mix.
Of course you cannot possibly say a word to anyone about this. Who would understand why you are so downcast about a child that should make you so happy? Who would understand why you would cry when your prayers have finally been answered? Who would understand your overwhelming emotions when you barely understand them yourself?
April 6, 2015
Sometimes, all it takes is one friend to make a difference. One friend to shape your life in a significant way. One friend who stands beside you when you venture with uncertainty into unfamiliar waters. One friend who reminds you every day that “with God all things are possible.”
The Lord knows that sometimes you need one friend who is altogether different from you. One friend who, because she is a little bit eccentric and unconventional, and even a little wild and kind of scary, when you meet her in a room full of strangers, you never would have predicted would be the one friend with whom your heart would bond so closely.